Dreaming in a Pandemic

Many people are dreaming more vividly during Coronavirus. They wonder what their Covid dreams mean.

The press is responding to this interest by interviewing people with knowledge of dreams, including this article I was interviewed for.

Sometimes, dreams are more vivid because our lives are less boisterous and less energy is directed to career and socializing. That frees up energy for what is going on inside. The inner life may be calling, and it is tired of waiting. Now that there is a forced lull, that inner life kicks the dust up, urging us to pay attention by giving us disturbing dreams.

Dreams come from the deepest roots of the personality. When we are living only in the outer world, we are disconnected from our roots. Then when a serious event like a pandemic occurs, a neglected emotional and spiritual root system does not support us, setting the stage for heightened anxiety and existential angst.

These deep roots can support and sustain us during difficult times. But to do that, they need watering. They need care and attention. What might your deepest personality be like? Imagine if there is a you who is not what your relationships have made you, or what your career has taught you. Imagine if there is a you that is older, eternal. Who is that person? Are you interested in learning more about them?

Getting to know this deep part of yourself is what I mean about cultivating an inner life. It is this deep self that creates the dreams which may be disturbing you now. But this does not mean that this part of the personality is something you should fear. As you put in time to water your own roots, learn to feel and hear that part, it feeds you back, and your dreams start to portray images of new life, and even rebirth. You may learn to relate to that part as a trusted ally who warns you of trouble and nudges you along a path to greater authenticity and depth.

As we look at Covid dreams, we do confront some fears. Some people dream they have caught Covid-19, or that they’re looking for their mask or have lost their mask. Sometimes people dream they are hiding out from the world in an apocalyptic setting where it is becoming increasingly difficult to avoid catching it.

The specific meaning of your Covid-19 dream will depend on the details of your dream, the setting, and the other figures besides you who appear in the dream. A dream often presents a problem, describes the inner factors that are in conflict, and may suggest a resolution to the problem.

For example, you might dream that you’re trying to put a mask on your beloved, affectionate pet. In the dream, your pet doesn’t understand why it needs a mask and keeps trying to get free of it. You have to keep an eye your pet constantly to ensure the mask stays on.

Symbolically, we might think of this dream as a conflict between your mind and your instincts. Your pet could represent the part of you that wants affection and will instinctively seek it without awareness of the consequences. That part may not have got the message from your rational mind that physical affection with people you don’t live with needs to be put on hold for the time being. And so the vigilance you have to exhibit in the dream might point to the level of conscious effort you have to regularly put in to watch that your instinct for physical affection doesn’t cause you to put yourself in danger during these remarkable times. You might engage in a dialogue with the instinct for affection and try to nourish it without endangering yourself.

Sometimes your unconscious may use Covid-19 as a symbol, rather than referring to the actual virus. One might say that other contagious factors are spreading worldwide now like a virus. For example, if you dream that you have caught Covid when you have not in waking life, your psyche might be be using the virus to warn you that you’re in danger of catching a heightened irrational fear that contagion is everywhere, in spite of your conscious knowledge you are quite safe because you are following recommended hand washing and distancing practices. Or you might be plagued with the fear that people from different cultures or countries are dangerous, even though under normal circumstances, you wouldn’t feel that way. Irrational fears can be contagious.

Most often, dreams express their meaning symbolically rather than literally. A dream that you have caught coronavirus likely does not mean that you will catch it. But it does have an important symbolic meaning unique to you and your life circumstances, which you can explore through Jungian analysis. Contact me to learn more.

The Secret To Unblocking Your Creativity May Be In Your Dreams

Prior to becoming a Jungian Analyst, I worked for 20 years in the film and television industry on over 200 episodes and hundreds of hours of media. I have experienced the frustration and pain of having creative ideas remain unmade. It can feel like a stillbirth, like you’ve abandoned your child.

And I have felt the deep satisfaction of bringing a creative idea out of the ether and manifesting it in the world. Again and again.

For a creative person, completing the creative cycle is healing.

Creative Hurdles

I have worked with clients who experience challenges to becoming the artists they want to be. Or perhaps they want to bring more vivacity and authenticity to their lives. To live more creatively.

What I have found is that blocks to creativity often appear in their dreams. Sometimes, we see parental attitudes to creative work showing up inside as barriers to self-expression. There can be perfectionism. Perhaps a tendency to toggle between feelings of inferiority and grandiosity. Sometimes addictions and compulsive behaviours show up too. There can also be vexing physical symptoms.

These can seem like the cause of the creative problem, or the thing that most needs to be handled before addressing frustrated creativity.

But sometimes, these things provide a useful distraction. They give a place to hide from the scarier challenge of tackling one’s creative ideas and working towards living a more meaningful, inner-directed life-path.

Moving from awareness to action

Now, it’s one thing to have an awareness of the blocks to expressing one’s creative voice. It’s quite another to resolve those blocks and open the channel.

The good news is, dreams – the spontaneous creations of the unconscious – can provide strength and direction when the ego runs out of ideas. As in fairy tales, when the hero is hopelessly lost in the forest, the wise old man or woman or the helpful animal appears to lead the way out of the darkness. With help, the hero can pursue their destiny.

Examples

What kind of dream images might hold the key to resolve blocked creativity? There may be male robbers or killers who pursue the dreamer. Sometimes a parent appears in a distracting way, and must be ignored to complete an important task. Or something needs to be cooked and there isn’t enough heat from the stove. A creative person the dreamer admires may ignore or condemn them. Or law enforcement officers insist that all of the rules be strictly followed. Perhaps the dreamer or someone else is flying and can’t or won’t land. Or the dreamer loses track of a baby they are meant to care for.

A clue in the setting of the dream

An important but easily overlooked clue to solving your creative blocks may lie in the setting of the dream. Like the house you lived in until you were 10. Or your elementary school. The setting can point to when in your life that creative block was formed. By remembering what happened at that time in your life, you may have an a-ha moment about when your creative expression became impaired.

These and many other images can appear in a dream addressing creative challenges. To resolve creative blocks, the dreamer can work with a Jungian Analyst, a psychotherapist trained in working with dreams. They can consider the dream as a whole. The analyst will ask about personal associations to the dream setting and other characters. In this way, specific clues emerge about how to transform creative blocks.

Next steps

Photo by Sally Mann

If these ideas resonate for you, consider booking an appointment with me in person or online.

Around the time you do, either just before or after we meet or you read this, you may find you have a dream which suggests that your unconscious wants to help. Write down that dream, and what happened the day you had it. That context is important.

Careful attention to the images in your dreams can light the path to expressing the voice that is uniquely yours.